Short answer: Nobody cares!
Here’s a fact of life that everyone should know: Everything you ever desired is outside of your comfort zone. A great rule of thumb is if something TERRIFIES you…DO IT. It’s never as bad as you think it’s going to be. In fact, you’ll feel elated that you finally took ACTION. Being masculine is about having a definitive purpose in life, being performance oriented, and INDIFFERENT to how fickle feminine energy is. A guy that is TRULY comfortable with himself and knows who he is…does WHAT he wants WHEN he wants. That is the ULTIMATE form of masculinity. Before you even approach a girl, you must have your own mentality sorted properly. This means you are:
Positive in your outlook in life, with high expectations- even if it’s far off. Be present!
Inviting personality- charming, outgoing, always looking to have a great time.
Confidence- No. 1 characteristic girls are attracted to…you’ve been there, done that, and
got the t-shirt! Many times!
Genuine- you are unapologetically YOURSELF.
Fun-loving- playful with ALL women.
NEVER feels awkward or badly about expressing interest in a girl.
Being BOLD and taking RISKS despite internal fears is what attracts girls to guys. This is what the ‘Chads’ do. Even in the event of rejection, whether professionally or personally, they are INDIFFERENT. Simply allowing themselves to brush it off and continue on what they were doing! They know it’s only a matter of time until the next opportunity arrives, and they will be better prepared for it. The very best salesmen understand this rule perfectly. It’s a numbers game. Some will like you, most will not. Just the way it is.
Now when you ask for a girl’s number (ALWAYS GO FOR HER NUMBER) and she ends up turning you down or offers resistance (IT HAPPENS TO ALL OF US) regardless of the reason, here are the best responses. Remember, girls do NOT like confrontation:
-Why say no, when yes would have felt so much better?
-When you’re ready for an upgrade, you know where to find me!
-Alrighty, have a good one!
-Of course you have a boyfriend, why wouldn’t you?
-You know, a ‘NO’ would have been fine, but ok…
-Enjoy your day!
The theme to be underscored here is STOP CARING. When you do this, RESULTS COME. By expressing indifference, you are granting yourself the power to GROW as a person and expand your confidence. Even if you don’t feel like a pro yet, you are to always act WITHIN when WITHOUT! This is because like will ALWAYS attract like. You must be outgoing, friendly, quick-witted, humorous, and therefore charming. It’s a scientific and guaranteed mental shift that allows you to attract the same in a girl. The alternative is just to be an insecure, withdrawn, grouch that is NEVER going to get laid. Life happens when you start mixing it up with people! As life is boring only to boring people. Girls love dudes who are alive on the inside and excited about what is happening in their lives, INDEPENDENTLY of her. Your purpose directly affects your attitude, and that will directly affect her attraction to you.