Short Answer: MOVE ON.
So you went up to talk to her after making direct eye contact and smiling…had a nice conversation…she was engaged and laughing as much as you were…and because you’re reading this you definitely got her number…waited 3 days to send ONE text (or ONE call as it is ALWAYS the positive differentiator)
…and now she isn’t reciprocating.
NEXT…NEXT…NEXT.
Attraction is biological. Science cannot be negotiated or changed. PERIOD. If she LIKES you she will HELP you. If you apply what I teach, she won’t play games, make you jump through hoops, or put up walls making it difficult to see her…these ‘shit tests’ will be at a minimum. It’s none of your business as to why she isn’t responding to you anyhow. It is HER decision. Sometimes, there can be a lot going on in the background too…i.e. ex-boyfriend drama, using you for validation…none of which you want to be apart of. DO NOT double text her when she doesn’t respond. Don’t be a broken pitching machine firing fastball messages at her! This will do nothing but show weakness. This is the inability to be masculine and exert control over your emotions...she will disappear faster than you can blink. The bottom line is, she doesn’t like you enough, and that’s ok.
‘Womanese’ is a special language, something I simplify in my book. She’s just hoping you get the picture and go away…or being difficult- trying to see if you’ll do what she wants, accept a maybe date, and see her especially last minute. You will NOT comply to ANY of these. The reality is, you don’t have ANY idea what she’s like or her attraction to you until you go out with her. This is why asking dynamic questions I offer in my book is so crucial. STOP being neurotic and making it about yourself. Being BUTTHURT and acting SMALL never served anyone, EVER. You offered the gift, yourself, and she declined for whatever reason. You are not the first guy nor the last. It happens, so keep prospecting. There’s ALWAYS another ride in the amusement park. Ultimately, it takes two to tango. Find someone who makes it EASY. She has a DESIRE to see you as you do to her. I mention this a lot because it’s the truth. Why would you want it any differently? You can’t force any girl to like you. It’s either hot or it’s not. That simple. We all know that feeling inside when we meet someone and ‘click’ with. It's effortless and mutual...most guys MISS the MUTUAL part. Your job is to be: CONFIDENT- go for it... and REVEAL the attraction levels- follow the rules.
Remember, as with anything else in life dating and compatibility is a NUMBERS GAME. No girl is going to drop out of the sky into your lap. It’s a matter of TIME and REPETITION. CIRCULATE. Keep getting comfortable in your own skin as a great conversationalist and polishing those soft skills. This is fundamental in getting it right. Don’t waste any more of your brain cells on someone who isn’t wasting theirs on you. Go find another and get back to life…NEXT!