Attraction has nothing to do with luck, it’s not your choice anyhow. Nature did its job—it is an exact science. People, especially women, cannot control who they like or don’t like. Your job is to simply reveal it. I break down the fundamentals of attraction, providing easy, practical advice and strategies for men to improve. Whether you're new to the dating scene or looking to enhance your skills, my book will make you succeed. I designed it to be more of an instruction booklet to teach you how to think, act and be for your best options.
Understanding the Science of Attraction
What is Attraction?
For a woman to desire a man: Clearly expressing confidence and competence within themselves. This stems from appearance, dominant body language, and communication skills. I see some beautiful women who were with guys that weren’t, specifically due to this fact.
Key Elements of Attraction
Appearance: Head up, shoulders back, making eye contact and smiling. Certainty within yourself is critical to attract feminine energy.
Communication: Be positive, be playful, be interested in her. It makes her comfortable with you. It is your duty to initiate conversation. We’re all human, and we’d be extinct if we didn't talk to each other.
Ask Engaging Questions: I give you a full list of proven conversation openers and to bridge the gaps between topics…just let nature take its course.
Active Listening: Truly hearing what she says and responding thoughtfully. THIS IS IMPORTANT TO HER.
Expressing Yourself: Keep it positive and keep it brief. She should be talking most of the time you are together.
Overcoming Approach Anxiety
Every guy has at one point struggled with this, here’s what works:
Mindset: Shifting from a fear of rejection to a mindset of opportunity.
Preparation: Knowing what to say and how to say it.
Practice: Practice makes perfect, and it’s fun! I show how to regularly engage in social interactions to build upon this skill.
Reading Signs of Attraction
Understanding when a woman is interested can be challenging, but it doesn’t need to be.
Eye Contact: Sustained and frequent eye contact indicates interest. Don’t look away first, ALWAYS follow with a smile.
Physical Touch: Light, casual touches…she’s telling you how she likes you.